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27 parenting tips for busy parents

27 parenting tips for busy parents

27 Parenting Tips to Show Your Love to your children and ways to know them in a better way. Every parent Must read & try some of them: 

1. Put away your phone in their presence.

2. Pay attention to what they are saying.

3. Accept their opinions and point of view.

4. Engage in their conversations.

5. Look at them with respect.

6. Always praise them.

7. Share good news with them.

8. Speak well of their friends and loved ones to them.

9. Keep in remembrance the good things they did.

10. If they repeat a story, listen like it’s the first time they tell it.

11. Don’t bring up painful memories from the past.

12. Avoid side conversations in their presence.

13. Don’t belittle/criticize their opinions and thoughts.

14. Respect their age.

15. Avoid cutting them off when they speak.

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16. Give them the power of leadership when they are present.

17. Avoid raising your voice at them.

18. Avoid walking in front or ahead of them.

19. Fill them with ur appreciation even when they don’t think they deserve it. (Most Imp. one)

20. Avoid putting your feet up in front of them or sitting with your back to them.

21. Don’t speak ill of them  to the point where others speak ill of them too.

22. Keep them in your prayers as much as possible.

23. Avoid seeming bored or tired of them in their presence.

24. Avoid laughing at their faults / mistakes.

25. Choose your words carefully when speaking with them.

26. Call them by names they like.

27. Make them your priority.

above anything n everything, the best parenting tips is 

Children are parents treasure and their most precious gift on this land. They must have seen the world lesser than you but they see it in a different way which you need to appreciate. Listen to them and try giving them as much time as you can. These moments are more precious than anything in this world…

Parenting is an art not a job.

Wishing you a very Successful Parenting

Parikshit Jobanputra Life Management Coach

Helpful article for parents – best parenting tips

Helpful article for parents – best parenting tips

Many Parents ask me one common question, How can we help our child to be a responsible & happy? How to reduce TV time? So Today i am sharing best parenting tips for the same. Hope this will help you ! 

I am an Author, Coach, Motivational Speaker & a Counsellor with 12 years of experience working with children, Parents, Teachers & Corporates. I am fortunate enough to touched over 1.2 million lives. Clearly, through my observation & experience here i am sharing some of the best parenting tips…  

 

  1. Successful Parenting needs Patience! “Patience is not just about waiting… it is more about how you behave with child while waiting.”
  2. Allot time to listen your child. Lend your child a listening ear and you will discover new things about your child.
  3. Avoid sharing your negative feelings with your child. Your complaints show ur sign of weakness & reduces ur self-value.
  4. coping-with-gadget-feverWeekends are when children spend the most time watching television since they have a lot of free time
    on their hands. Make it a point to plan some form of an outing with your children which involves some activity.
  5. Watching TV while eating can cause indigestion & obesity in child. So keep ur dinner before or after TV program but not together.
  6. Turn off the television when your child’s friends are over. It may be hard to limit your child’s watching TV when he alone, but it will be easy when he has a friend over.
  7. Make a similar pact with other parents, and ask them that when your child is over at their place, they should turn off the television.Best Parenting Tips by Parikshit Jobanputra
  8. Develop habit to send your child to your building garden or to the neighbourhood park in the evenings to play with other children. Rather watching TV and GAMES.
  9. Encourage your child to take part in the activities he likes and avoid forcing him. If they are interested in sports, support them to take part in sports.
  10. To get your Child to eat Healthy  eat at least one meal together everyday. This gives you a chance to serve Healthy Food. 
  11. Take time to play indoor or outdoor games with your child. All the time home work & no play makes your child a dull in study.

 

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We must respect women in our life

We must respect women in our life

में परीक्षित जोबनपुत्रा आप से एक घटना शेयर करने जा रहा हूँ, जो हमें inspire करती हे की (We must respect women in our life) हमे हमारे जीवन में स्त्री को ज़्यादा सन्मान देना चाहिए l अपेक्षा रखता हूँ के आपको पसंद आएगी l आपका फीडबैक ज़रूर से शेयर करे l

स्त्री क्या है ?

जब भगवान स्त्री की रचना कर रहे थे तब उन्हें काफी समय लग गया ।

आज छठा दिन था और स्त्री की रचना अभी भी अधूरी थी।
इसिलए देवदूत ने पूछा भगवन्, आप इसमें इतना समय क्यों ले रहे हो…?

भगवान ने जवाब दिया, “क्या तूने इसके सारे गुणधर्म (specifications) देखे हैं, जो इसकी रचना के लिए जरूरी है ?

१. यह हर प्रकार की परिस्थितियों को संभाल सकती है

२. यह एक साथ अपने सभी बच्चों को संभाल सकती है एवं खुश रख सकती है ।

३. यह अपने प्यार से घुटनों की खरोंच से लेकर टूटे हुये दिल के घाव भी भर सकती है ।

४. यह सब सिर्फ अपने दो हाथों से कर सकती है

५. इस में सबसे बड़ा “गुणधर्म” यह है कि बीमार होने पर भी अपना ख्याल खुद रख सकती है एवं 18 घंटे काम भी कर सकती है।

देवदूत चकित रह गया और आश्चर्य से पूछा-

“भगवान ! क्या यह सब दो हाथों से कर पाना संभव है ?”

भगवान ने कहा यह स्टैंडर्ड रचना है
(यह गुणधर्म सभी में है )

देवदूत ने नजदीक जाकर स्त्री को हाथ लगाया और कहा, “भगवान यह तो बहुत नाज़ुक है”

भगवान ने कहा हाँ यह बहुत ही नाज़ुक है, मगर इसे बहुत Strong बनाया है ।

इसमें हर परिस्थितियों को संभालने की ताकत है

देवदूत ने पूछा क्या यह सोच भी सकती है ??

भगवान ने कहा यह सोच भी सकती है और मजबूत हो कर मुकाबला भी कर सकती है।

देवदूत ने नजदीक जाकर स्त्री के गालों को हाथ लगाया और बोला, “भगवान ये तो गीले हैं। लगता है इसमें से लिकेज हो रहा है।”

भगवान बोले, “यह लीकेज नहीं है, यह इसके आँसू हैं।”

देवदूत: आँसू किस लिए ??

भगवान बोले : यह भी इसकी ताकत हैं । आँसू इसको फरीयाद करने एवं प्यार जताने एवं अपना अकेलापन दूर करने का तरीका है

देवदूत: भगवान आपकी रचना अदभुत है । आपने सब कुछ सोच कर बनाया है, आप महान है

भगवान बोले-
यह स्त्री रूपी रचना अदभुत है । यही हर पुरुष की ताकत है जो उसे प्रोत्साहित करती है। वह सभी को खुश देखकर खुश रहतीँ है। हर परिस्थिति में हंसती रहती है । उसे जो चाहिए वह लड़ कर भी ले सकती है। उसके प्यार में कोइ शर्त नहीं है (Her love is unconditional) उसका दिल टूट जाता है जब अपने ही उसे धोखा दे देते है । मगर हर परिस्थितियों से समझौता करना भी जानती है।

देवदूत: भगवान आपकी रचना संपूर्ण है।

भगवान बोले ना, अभी इसमें एक त्रुटि है

“यह परिवार के लिए अपनी “महत्वत्ता” भूल जाती है”
( “For the family, She often forgets what she is worth”. )

सभी आदरणीय स्त्रीयों को समर्पित।

(To all respectful women)

  – Parikshit Jobanputra

Life Management Coach

 

Modern Parenting Tips & Traps

Modern Parenting Tips & Traps

 I Parikshit Jobanputra want to share some modern parenting tips & traps. As a parent of new generation kids, just think! Years back Our Poor / Illiterate Parents had given us stress free & happy childhood. They produced Doctors, Engineers, Scientists, Accountants, Lawyers,  Architects,  Professors…

Whom I will refer to as “Group-A.”

These “Group-A.” Children struggled on their own after Primary 6 or Grade 12, to become notable personalities. Most of them trekked to school “barefooted” went to farms fetched water and firewood
cared for domesticated animals did some work including trading after school to survive.

Now “Group-A”, who have now become Parents themselves are producing  “Group-B”  Children
These group B children are…

  • Pampered,
  • Helped in their homework or assignments from nursery school through secondary schools.
  • School Bus or Chauffeur driven to very expensive schools or are sent abroad to study.
  • They can watch movies from morning till dawn after school.
  • In home also they are treated like baby kings and queens.
  • They don’t do any household chores.
  • Food is put on the table for them, their plates are removed and washed by parents or house maids.
  • They are given expensive Toys and clothes, not forgetting “big pocket monies to be wasted” !
  • Their parents help them in doing their assignments. In spite of all these, only few can “speak” or “write” correctly.

 “Group-A” Parents cared for their own parents and children, “Group-B”, their Children are still struggling to find their feet at age 30+.

They find it difficult to do things on their own because they are used to being helped to think and doing things by “Group-A”. So they can’t help themselves, their parents or the society.

Tips for Modern Parents

  • Reduce the pampering and the unnecessary help you offer your children.
  • Let your children grow in wisdom, intelligence and strength by their own experience.
  • Let them face the truth and the realities of life.
  • Teach them to grow  to become independent adults.
  • Teach them to fear God, respect  others and develop confidence in themselves.
  • Parents, discipline your children to become responsible adults.

Wishing You a very Successful Parenting…

Parikshit Jobanputra

– Life Management Coach

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